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1998-01-09 - Suffering, Part 2
Last week we were reminded that we should expect hard times, that we can
learn from suffering and that we are to be thankful even in the midst of
it. How else should we deal with suffering?
We are to trust God to work good out of our trials -- He can and will bring
glory to Himself and also work for our good, in our suffering:
(Rom 8:28 NLT) And we know that God causes everything
to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according
to his purpose for them.
As those of you who have read my testimony on the website know, if not for
my suffering of severe chronic pain a decade or so ago, I wouldn't be the
Christian I am today. NOT that I have arrived, by any means! But it spurred
growth in me. It forced me to turn closer to God; there was no other recourse.
Before that happened, I never could understand when people would go through
something tragic, and then say something like "it's the best thing that ever
happened to me." I never thought I would feel that way. But now I can honestly
say, I am grateful for that time. I was a Christian, yes, read the Bible
every day, yes. But this pushed me into deeper water spiritually -- out
of the kiddie pool. It forced me to depend more on God and less on Jan.
Also, we are to use our suffering to help others
(2 Cor 1:3-4 NNAS) Blessed be the God and Father of our
Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, 4 who
comforts us in all our affliction so that we will be able to comfort those
who are in any affliction with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted
by God.
Before we truly suffer ourselves, we don't really understand what others
are going through; we can't truly empathize as well unless we have had hard
times ourselves.
Some of us have another idea that is really sad - that when we suffer we
should not express our deepest hearts about that suffering. As the song ("What
a Friend We Have in Jesus") says "Oh what peace we often forfeit, oh what
needless pain we bear" when we don't pour out our hearts to God as we are
invited to do, in Psalms 62:8. The Bible contains a good number
of examples of expressing emotions. Neither David the Psalmist nor Jesus
minced words:
(Psa 13:1 NNAS) How long, O LORD? Will You forget me forever?
How long will You hide Your face from me?
(Mat 27:46 NNAS) About the ninth hour Jesus cried out
with a loud voice, saying, "ELI, ELI, LAMA SABACHTHANI?" that is, "MY GOD,
MY GOD, WHY HAVE YOU FORSAKEN ME?
God wants us to bring our suffering to Him. Christ took our suffering to
the cross.
(1 Pet 5:7 NNAS) casting all your anxiety on Him, because
He cares for you.
(Psa 46:1 NNAS) God is our refuge and strength, A very
present help in trouble.
Dear Father, help us deal with our suffering as You want us to. Help
us remain open to having our suffering used suffering for Your purposes.
In Jesus' name, amen.
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