2000-06-14 - Accepting God's Forgiveness
Forgiveness, Part 4
This is the final installment in my forgiveness series. We have looked at
forgiving others, forgiving ourselves and asking God for forgiveness. Today
we will look at accepting God's forgiveness.
This past Tuesday I went with my son's second-grade class on a field trip
to the NC Zoo. The teacher divided up the students among us parents. I of
course had my son Bobby, another boy and thank goodness, three sweet girls.
The one boy (not my son) was simply out of control. He would not listen,
ran all over the place, picked plants, threw things at the baboons and was
simply not behaving very well.
When we all met back at the bus, the teacher asked me how my group had behaved.
I told her all was well except the one boy. She was not very happy. Wednesday
night the boy's mom called me. She said her son wanted to apologize for his
behavior. He came on the line and was very contrite. He apologized for all
his wrongs. I simply said, "I forgive you; please don't act like that again."
But then he just kept on saying how sorry he was. I said again, "It's ok.
Thanks for calling. You are forgiven." He repeated his remorseful apology.
Finally I said, "Son, just accept my forgiveness and get on with life." The
phone went silent, his mom came back on and I told her thanks. This
eight-year-old boy had the same problem many of us have: We can't seem to
fully accept God's forgiveness.
Three of the definitions of "acceptance" in the Encarta World English
Dictionary are as follows:
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saying yes: a written or verbal indication that somebody agrees to an
invitation
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taking of a gift: the willing receipt of a gift or payment
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willingness to believe: willingness to believe that something is true
Encarta® World English Dictionary [North American Edition] © &
(P) 1999-2000 Microsoft Corporation. All rights reserved.
1 John 1:9 (LB) But if we confess our sins to him, he
can be depended on to forgive us and to cleanse us from every wrong. And
it is perfectly proper for God to do this for us because Christ died to wash
away our sins.
Luke 5:20 (LB)Seeing their faith, Jesus said to the man,
"My friend, your sins are forgiven!"
Hebrews (LB) 10:10 Under this new plan we have been
forgiven and made clean by Christ's dying for us once and for all.
Hebrews 10:18 (LB) Now, when sins have once been forever
forgiven and forgotten, there is no need to offer more sacrifices to get
rid of them.
God says a resounding yes when we ask for His forgiveness of our sins. The
invitation is always open for us to accept His forgiveness. But those of
us who have a hard time forgiving ourselves, also seem to have a hard time
accepting God's forgiveness.
God's forgiveness is a gift to us. As the Encarta definition points out,
acceptance means that we must be willing to receive that gift. The gift and
payment are provided by Jesus' death on the cross for our sins -- not only
the sins we committed in the past, but ALL sins, past, present and future.
Acceptance of God's forgiveness is an act of faith on our part. It takes
faith in God to stop beating ourselves up. We sometimes feel we don't deserve
to be forgiven, and that is true; none of us deserve it. The forgiveness
is unmerited. It takes faith to start believing that He really does forgive
us and love us unconditionally, no matter what we have done. Our God is a
God of promises. He delights in making promises and keeping those promises.
And in 1 John 1:9 we have the promise that He will forgive us if
we ask for it.
Father, help us to understand your irrational and
unconditional love for us. Help us to accept your forgiveness and move forward
in our lives. Help us to grow closer to you. Give us the strength to move
away from our sinful past and toward your Holiness. Thank you for having
an offer of forgiveness waiting only for our asking and accepting. In the
name of the Author and Perfector of our faith, Who bought our forgiveness
with His blood, Jesus.
David Massey
david@masseyre.com
http://www.cfdevotionals.org
http://www.peacewithgod.com
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