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2000-03-03 - Has Your Smile Worn
Off?
Tonight I looked at my dilapidated keychain. At one time, it was a very cute
smiley face, in the 70's tradition. But now the smile is worn off, and it's
simply a big yellow ball. The smile had worn off. I thought, "Sometimes that
happens to us. We let the worries and hassles of everyday life wear our smiles
off." We allow exterior circumstances to render us irritable, and we forget
all we have for which to be thankful. God does not expect us to be "up" all
the time, nor to pretend all is well when it is not. It is very Biblical
to share our difficulties with both God (see Ps. 62:8) and our Christian
friends (see Rom. 12:15) But one of the gifts of His Holy Spirit is
joy, and that is not dependent on what is happening around us.
Gal 5:22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace,
patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness. (NIV)1
2 Cor 8:2 Out of the most severe trial, their overflowing
joy and their extreme poverty welled up in rich
generosity. (NIV)1
Even during a very taxing situation, the Macedonian churches were joyful.
How can we prevent "losing our smile" to the hurts and worries of our lives?
We can pray for God to help us see all our circumstances, and all people,
through Jesus' eyes. Then we can see them in a sense of perspective, an eternal
one. Instead of cursing the person who cuts us off in traffic or jumps ahead
of us in the grocery store line, we will utter a little prayer for him.
We can ask God to help us have a teachable spirit. If we make a "C" instead
of our usual "A" on an exam, this can be a good lesson in humility, and perhaps
help us be better able to empathize with those who struggle in school. If
the doctor's office makes a billing error and thinks we have not paid a bill,
instead of seeing it as an annoyance, we can realize that many people face
this monthly -- and some are unable to keep up with bills, even if they are
working full-time or overtime and doing the best they can. He can teach us
valuable lessons from every situation we face.
We can practice thankfulness. I hope you will join me in trying to find at
least one thing for which to be thankful, in every situation you face--whether
it's a trivial annoyance or a deep pain.
Dear Lord, please help us to see all people and
circumstances through Your eyes. Help us to retain the smiles on our faces
and in our hearts, no matter what is happening around us. In Jesus' name,
amen.
Jan
jan@cfdevotionals.org
http://www.cfdevotionals.org
1 The New International Version, (Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan
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